I guess I could have phrased that part of my answer in a more directly applicable manner: if the majority of FreeBSD users are on desktop/servers and specifically not on mobile, then the majority of dev attention is also going to be focused in a similar fashion. The shortage for a project of this magnitude and nature isn't going to be lack of hardware, it's going to be lack of time and the opportunity cost for the few that could hack on this to stop hacking away on something else.
Basically, the incentives don't align because you're using FreeBSD in a way that most users/devs aren't. That's not to say that you're in the wrong (not one bit, in fact, you should be commended for your dedication) but just to highlight that there's a fundamental impedance mismatch between the needs of laptop FreeBSD users and the overall priorities of the community. It took an insane amount of time and effort to get Linux KPI going for graphics card support (something that affected both laptop and desktop users), you can infer from that the odds of getting something only for laptop use to become a priority.
That said, you should also look at the current release log as an indication of things to come. The effort to get Linux KPI going is very much a step in the right direction: whatever time/money/effort was going into porting or writing new drivers for wi-fi hardware can now be spent on doing things like improving the crypto and/or protocol support to get things like WPA3 and WiFi 6 going.
But the reason I highlighted the above section of the release notes is strictly because the bulk of the work to get 802.11ac support is purely in writing the drivers since it doesn't fundamentally change the requirements in the rest of the stack (no new crypto required, etc) so I don't see how highlighting that isn't already an answer to your question.